Monday, September 12, 2011

The past few months of my life


I have been married for just over a month and I haven’t blogged about any of it yet. So much has happened and every time I have tried to sit down and blog about it I realize it is a much bigger undertaking then I was wanting to start. I get overwhelmed and decide that doing it later is a better idea. I have hardly posted any pictures (by hardly I mean that I haven’t posted any) and my photographer was great. That means that I have plenty of pictures for you to look at.


Engagements

Here are our top 10 Engagement Pictures

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The weather was great until we started driving to our second locations. It rained and we waited it out. The pictures from both places turned out great, except for the last few from the second location. I must have been allergic to something because in between each picture I would sneeze. My eyes got all read and watery and my face looked funny because I was trying so hard not to sneeze.


Bridals

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We got these taken at the Noni Gardens down in the Riverwoods. The garden was very pretty, but the weather happened to by bipolar that day. We spent out evening running out when the rain stopped, taking a few pictures, then running back to cover when it started raining again. Then we would do the process all over again. It would go from sunny to pouring to sunny in a matter of minutes. It really was quite the adventure. After only sleeping 2 or so hours the night before and then trying to ditch the rain for two hours I was beat. I was hoping to fit in a nap that day, but never quite got around to it. Luckily the red, tired eyes aren’t too noticeable in any of the pictures.

Going to the Temple

I was able to go through the temple on August 5th for the first time. So many people tried to tell me know weird it was. A few told me that it wasn’t really weird, just different. I’m not going to lie, before I went I was so nervous about going. It’s one of those things that I have known about my entire life, but I didn’t really know about it at all. Luckily Scott’s sister, Heidi, went through for her first time with me. I was glad to have someone there that I knew was just as nervous as I was. In the end it wasn’t as scary or as nerve wracking as I thought it was going to be. Sure, it was a little different, but nothing too weird. I was so happy to have people there for me. My mom, Scott’s mom, Suzanne, Marinda, Aunt Cathy, and Aunt Jill. There were some guys to but I didn’t pay as much attention to them.

The Roast

My family always does a roast before someone gets married. It’s a way for the family to let the new comer know a little more about what exactly they are getting themselves into. So, that evening we planned a dinner and the roast. A family friend hosted the dinner for us in their home, they were so nice to paint and decorate for it. We had planned for it to start at 6:00 pm. I had forgotten how my family tends to view time, for them 6:00 pm means 7:00 pm. Of course the Scott’s family was there by 6:00. I wasn’t sure if I had explained to his parents what they were supposed to do very well, and didn’t want to make them feel uncomfortable if they didn’t know what they were doing. But they did great. I learned about Scott’s obsession with Peter Pan, Spagebitty (Spaghetti), and how he would play Batman and Barbies with Heidi. My family wasn’t as harsh as I imagined they would be. I was actually flattered by what a lot of my family had to say. I am so grateful to be a part of both of these families.

Our Wedding Day

My day started off a little early. My photographer offered to take our pictures early so we could avoid crowds and wouldn’t have to have people waiting around as long after the wedding. That meant me getting up around 5:00 am to do my make-up and collect everything that I would need for the day. Compared to my normal schedule 5 am is sleeping in. People asked me if I slept well the night before, I think that if you sleep as much as I do then you can sleep anytime, and anywhere without any problem. I woke up and decided to try on my dress to decide which garments to wear under it. The first top I tried didn’t work, the second… it showed too, the third was no good either. At this point I was about to freak out (How bridezilla of me). Finally the last top I had worked, but it was a close call. I finished up at my house and was at the salon by 6:00 am. Courtney was nice enough to come in that early to do my hair. I picked up Scott and we were off to the temple for pictures.













They went perfectly, the lighting was great, it wasn’t hot and nobody was around. I had forgotten to get a throw bouquet and so we were just going to run by a store to grab some roses. We debated about going home and changing first but that would take more time. So what did we do? We went to Wal-Mart fully dressed for our wedding. We got some pretty strange looks, but we saved time not going home to change.


We had a little bit of spare time, and then it was back to the temple, this time for the real deal. There was a lot more waiting around then I thought there would be in the temple. Finally we went into the sealing room, and I was amazed that so many people showed up to support us. Our sealer was awesome! I have only been to two temple ceremonies so I don’t have much to compare it to, but I loved ours. (I am pretty sure that is how everyone feels about their own) It was great to be surrounded by so many people, Aunts and Uncles that I hadn’t seen in years. When the ceremony was over we went back into the dressing room to touch up my make-up and check my hair. We walked out of the temple only to be surrounded by so many more people. I didn’t realize how many people were actually there for us until I got our pictures back and saw how huge our group was.









Pictures went a little longer than I had planned on them taking and we were a little late for our luncheon. The food was great, we had a choice of beef, chicken, or fish and then we had three choices for dessert, berries and ice cream, lemon something, and a chocolate fudge cake. Everything that I tasted was great. Because pictures went late, the luncheon went late, and we still had to set up for the reception. The reception started at 6:00, and we got there at 5:30 to set up. I was almost in tears as we tried to rush and get everything put together. On top of trying to get everything set up we were supposed to take pictures with our bridesmaids and groomsmen.

We were rushing to get the pictures done as people were starting to show up. Then once we got in our line I had no idea what was going on for the rest of the reception. I had so many people there to help out, and as far I as I know everything went pretty smoothly. I am so grateful for everyone who made everything go work out! I also got many compliments on our food selection. Thanks, Grandma and Brook for the tarts and Cream Puffs and for helping with everything! I didn’t hear any complaints, other than how long our line was, so I will just assume everything else went okay. Our cake was huge, a couple tiers of lemon raspberry, and a couple chocolate.


A little into the reception we cut the cake, that way people would eat it and we would end up with enough cake to feed a small country.



Then we got back in line and greeted more people. The reception place was great. The owner of the reception place, not so great. I think she was deemed “The Dragon Lady” by our wedding party. At exactly 8:00 (the time my invitation said our reception ended) The Dragon Lady grabbed my hand and was pulling me away from the line so I could throw my bouquet an do our first dance. My cousin Emma from Washington caught the bouquet.


There were only a few more people in line. I was surprised that she was so pushy about getting everything finished. She just wasn’t a very nice lady at all. We had our first dance, and honestly, I wish the song we chose was shorter. Rocking back and forth for 4 minutes really isn’t very interesting for anyone.


Then we had my daddy daughter dance.

We changed out of our fancy clothes and we were off. We stayed the night up in Salt Lake at the Grand America Hotel. It was the perfect day, no huge glitches and no major break downs.

The Honeymoon

I knew the day that Scott was going to propose, so he decided to keep where we were going on our honeymoon a secret from me. He did such a great job not spilling the beans. He never let any hints slip other than the fact that I needed a passport. I did a good job not asking. We had let his whole family know it was a secret and that I wasn’t supposed to know. We had stuck around for a week after our wedding to make sure we were there for Scott’s sister’s wedding the Friday after ours. After the ceremony we were waiting for them to come out of the temple and Uncle Reid came up and said “When are your guys taking off to Cancun?” I thought that he was just trying to trick me, we have gotten a lot of “So… Idaho for the honeymoon” or “Yeah it’s good to stay close to home, St. George is great this time of year.” I thought that was what this was too. Then when I looked at Scotts face I realized that the secret had been revealed and we really were going to Cancun. We left the next morning and it took forever to get through the Mexican airport. When you finish customs you go through another security gate, you push a button, if you are green then you are free to go, if you’re red then you get to have your bags searched. Of course, I got red. She opens my suitcase and the items of clothing that I had on top just happened to be the things I received at a bridal shower. They pulled out a thing or two, looked at me and then continued to search through the rest of my bag. AWKWARD. Then we were off to the resort, which was amazing! They had an infinity pool, and while standing in the pool it looked like it lead straight into the ocean. The water was the brightest blue I have ever seen water be. It was also perfect temperature, no cold shock when you first got in.

We spent our days eating tacos, nachos, and quesadillas and our evenings watching movies, playing on the beach, or at the shopping place across the street.


One of the days we went to Chichen Itza. We signed up for the Express trip, we left the resort at 8:00 am and we got back at 3:00 pm. It wasn’t as express as we thought it was going to be, but it was very cool.


On a different day we went snorkeling at two different National reefs. It was cool seeing the fish, Scott even got to see a barracuda. The honeymoon was great. It was nice to have time to relax, and just hang out, although I am not very good at it. We came home the following Saturday. I got stopped at security again at the airport and they had to check my bag again. Then Scott got stopped at the gate and his bags were checked. I guess we look like terrorists to the people at the Mexico airport.


I still cannot believe that it has been a month already. It has been fun, other than the fact that I never get to see Scott now that school started. This post was a novel, but there has been so much going on that needed to be written about.




Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Crazy Crazy Crazy

Over Christmas break I made a promise with two of my roommates from freshman year at BYU (The two responsible for me meeting Scott). We promised that each of us would update our blogs once a month. January and February were easy to find time to blog, not as easy to find things to blog about. I kept wishing that something big was happening in my life that I could blog about. Well, now something big is happening in my life, and I still don’t know what to blog about.

I am getting married in less than a month and my life has been consumed by everything that goes into getting married. I feel like I am pretty much done with the planning, but I am sure I will realize that I forgot a ton of stuff once the date gets closer. The big things have been taken care of. I have the temple scheduled on August 6th, and my endowments scheduled for August 5th. I have a receptions center scheduled, I have asked a couple people to help with my reception food (Thanks by the way!), I have my dress, invites are sent out, and I have my fiancé (The most import thing to have). That’s all I really need, isn’t it?

Now it is all the little things that I need to worry about. How do I get one of my bridesmaids out to Utah from Virginia? Will the idea I have in my head for my center pieces work out as well as I would like? Who all is planning on attending the sealing, and luncheon? What do I want to do for my send off? Veil or no veil? What would I like the guys to wear? How do I clear up my skin before Aug 6th, because I think the stress is making me break out?

If you are part of my family, or a close friend that wants to participate then you are welcome to come. As of right now we are planning on doing a roast for me and Scott the evening of August 5th. I would love for anyone who is in town to be there.

There are both pros and cons of getting married.

CONS
· I have to plan a wedding
· I don’t know how to respond when someone I don’t know gets me a gift
· There is so much to do and to think about
· The funds in bank account keeps getting smaller

PROS
· I have a bunch of great pictures of me and Scott
· I finally will get to know what happens in the temple
· People give us gifts
· I GET TO MARRY SCOTT

This week is like the week of bridal showers for me. Saturday I had a ward bridal shower, there were a lot of people I didn’t know, I guess that is what happens when you leave your home ward for a singles ward for a few years. Then yesterday I had a family bridal shower that Scott’s aunts threw for me and Heidi. They call it a traditions shower and everyone brings a gift that is a tradition for their family. It was fun hearing the different things they do as traditions. Tomorrow I have my last bridal shower, which is the one my college and high school friends are coming to. I didn’t think I would have anyone to throw me a bridal shower and I ended up with 3.

I had my bridals yesterday, which was quite the adventure. The weather has been so crazy lately. Within minutes the weather went from being sunny one minute to an absolute down pour the next, then back to sunny. I now can say that I have had to run in a wedding dress, haha. I hope the pictures turned out okay, considering the fact that I only got about an hour and a half of sleep the night before. The good news is that I have an amazing photographer, seriously I usually hate pictures of me, but our engagements turned out so well that me and Scott had a hard time choosing which picture we like best out of the 37 we narrowed it down to. If you are in Utah County and in need of a great photographer I would recommend Melanie Paxton.

There is also a lot going on with me outside of wedding stuff. I am in the middle of a promotion at work. I am getting trained to do a bunch of new things. I am excited for the promotion to actually go through. I have been switching off between day shifts and graveyard shifts. It isn’t too back when I work a graveyard shift and then have a good 26 hours before my next shift, but when I go from the day to the graveyard shift the 6 hours between doesn’t feel very long at all. The best part is that I am picking up an extra shift which means I am getting some overtime pay. The worst part is I have only gotten about 4 hours of sleep in the last 2 nights. Lets hope for my sanity that I can get some sleep tonight

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

2 months to go!!

I should have updated everyone on the date as soon as we decided, but I didn’t. We finally made the decision to tie the knot on…(imagine drumroll) August 6th. We will be sealed in the Mount Timpanogos Temple, and then we will live happily ever after. That’s how it works, right? You know, there are things that I really look forward to about getting married.

a) I get to be with my Best Friend forever.

b) I won’t have to say goodbye to Scott at the end of the day, every day.

c) He gets to wear a ring too (show the world that he is taken)

d) We will get to know each other even more (learn how to push each other’s buttons)

e) Scott will be upgraded from ‘Fiancé’ to ‘Husband’

f) My home will be his home

g) Have someone to tickle my back

Things that I don’t really look forward to about marriage

a) Twice the dirty laundry (my least favorite chore that cannot ever be escaped)

b) I will no longer have my last name. For some reason there was a sense of pride that came with that last name…

See look, the pros totally out weigh the cons. I love my life.

Family: I would love to have anyone come out for my wedding but so many of you live pretty far away so I don’t expect it. Also, for anyone planning on coming we will be doing a Roast the night before the wedding (the evening of Aug 5th) so if you want to participate you are totally welcome to. Also, I need addresses so it would be great if you would email me or facebook message me with your address so I don’t have to hunt it down later.

Saturday, May 21, 2011

I'm Engaged

This time I am the one who is engaged. It’s even facebook official, thanks to Kelci. So here are the answers to all the questions that I have been getting. I will put headings on all the pieces of the story incase you just want to jump to the how he proposed.

Our Story

I laugh because we have what I consider to be the ideal BYU relationship. Growing up in Provo I always swore that I would never be one of those typical Provo girls when it came to dating. I didn’t even want to go to BYU because I felt like that was too cliché coming from Provo. Boy, am I glad that I did now that I look back on the last couple years. Me and Scott met Freshman year at a Service project at BYU on January 2st, 2008. He went to high school with my roommates and they invited him and his roommate Nick. We saw each other everyday after that for almost 6 months. We officially started dating on March 2, 2008. Then on May 6, 2009 he left on his mission to Japan. We wrote almost every week (we probably missed 15 letters between the two of us). He came home on March 17, 2011 and we started dating again. I guess it doesn’t quite follow the real trend for a BYU girl. If that was the case then I would have been married before he got home, and probably had a kid by now.

Getting the Ring

We went ring shopping a couple weeks ago, and picked out what ring we liked. Scott’s dad is friends with the owner of a jewelry store in Provo so we when to him to get a deal. We ordered the ring and they told us to come back in a couple days to look at the wax model to make sure it is what we wanted. When we looked at the wax version we made a couple changes to how it looked and then sent it off to get made. They told us it would take about a week to get it back. Then they called and pushed it back a little further. Scott wouldn’t tell me what the new date would be so I felt like they extended the finish date by FOREVER. Then on top of that we had to have it shipped out of state so we could save some money on the tax. So it got shipped up to Wyoming for my dad to ship back to us. I guess this was a bigger hassle than we bargained for. When the FedEx guy showed up he said that he needed Scott Robinson to sign for it and that he would need ID. Luckily they were able to call the manager of the FedEx store there and explain the circumstance. My dad was coming to Utah anyway so instead of shipping it back he just brought it to us. Me and Scott were sitting in the car, and we were both dying to see the ring so we opened the first box, and then the second box, and then the ring box’s box, finally we get to the ring box. What does Scott do? He tells me to shut my eyes while he looks at the ring. As much as I really wanted to look I closed my eyes as he told me how shiny and pretty it looked.

Getting Engaged

Me and Scott are your typical working students. We work, go to school, and sit in the library all day studying. Sometimes it’s hard to keep up with Spring classes because they go twice as fast as classes during the regular semester. We just finished round one of midterms so we haven’t had much time to do anything. Usually we try to do something ‘fun’ when I don’t have to work the next morning (this means I can stay up later that 8 or 9 at night). This week I had Friday off so I knew Thursday was our night to go out. Since we already had the ring I figured that there would be a good chance that this is when Scott would ask me. I had been bugging him all week saying things like “I don’t care how you propose, you can just ask me”, or “You know, we could get engaged right now, if you want to”. Just stupid things trying to figure out when in the world he was going to ask. Thursday we finished up our classes and we went to the library to do some studying. Then I asked him what the plan was for the night. He said that we should go out to eat and then go to a movie. My response was “… and then?”. He just smiled and said “and then I have a surprise for you”. Really he was going to make me sit through a dinner and a movie? Lame!

We went to PF Changs for dinner, the place we went on our very first date, and also on our first date after he came home from his mission. There was a date night special thing where we got soup, an appetizer, 2 entrees and then a mini dessert for each of us. Dinner was great and I was anxious just to get the movie over with so I could get my surprise. Scott got up to go wash his hands after we ate, and I debated whether it would be fair for me to pay for dinner or not. I decided that Scott would be pretty upset if I did. Scott had just sat back down at the table when the waiter came up with the check and the fortune cookies. I was way confused because there were 3 cookies on the plate the he brought. Which probably was good, I was too worried about there being 3 cookies that I didn’t realize that they weren’t wrapped. Me and Scott both grabbed a cookie and he cracked his and put the fortune face down, and then looked at me like, “you go first”. So I opened up my cookie and the fortune said “Amber, will you marry me?” Next thing I know Scott is on his knee next to the booth we were sitting at with the ring box asking me to marry him. Of course I said yes! A few minutes later the waiter came up and said “Are we celebrating?” He opened up a bottle of sparkling cider and poured them into some champagne glasses for us. It was way cute, and I no longer have a boyfriend… he’s been upgraded to my fiancé.

Scott has been in my life for 1216 days so far and I am looking forward to the many more ahead of us!

Wedding Bells

Picking a wedding date has been harder than I thought. Before he left we picked the date August 6, 2011. It was more of a joke, but the more we joked about it the more serious the idea became. That date just seemed perfect. It was before school started for most people, so it would be good timing for anyone who was coming out of state to be here. It was August so the weather would be warm, possibly even hot (I really don’t like cold). My wedding pictures would have color to them instead of a white background. Scott’s little sister got engaged a few weeks ago and her wedding is scheduled for August 12th. That is only 6 days apart (incase you couldn’t do the math). Which I feel bad for his family, having to do 2 weddings in less than a week, that’s really stressful. Luckily they only have one daughter getting married, not 2. I think that we will be able to handle most of the stressful stuff about our wedding so they won’t have to worry about it. August 19th is still in the running, but as of right now we are leaning toward August 6th. If you have an opinion on my date, lets hear it. I will finalize it soon.

I think that covers everything so if you have any other questions or things that you want to know just comment and I will either do another blog post or write back.

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